T. R. Smith, comp. Poetica Erotica: Rare and Curious Amatory Verse. 1921–22.
The Forgetful Mother
Anonymous(From Pills to Purge Melancholy, 1707) |
MY Mother she will not endure | |
That I should Married be, | |
Altho’ my Father do procure | |
A Husband fit for me; | |
Wherein she doth me much abuse, | 5 |
My Father’s profer to refuse; | |
For younger Maids than I are sped, | |
And yet forsooth, I must not Wed. | |
My Mother she breeds all the Jars, | |
And ill she does me use, | 10 |
And Love and Age breeds all the Wars, | |
Which grieves me to refuse. | |
Before she was as old as I, | |
She with a Man six Weeks did lie; | |
Judge you how much she doth me wrong, | 15 |
To make me live a Maid so long. | |
For now I am of lawful Years, | |
A Twelve Month’s time and more, | |
As by the Church-Book plain appears, | |
Which doth my Age implore. | 20 |
For now I am Sixteen years old, | |
Why should I then be thus controlled, | |
And discontent to lie alone; | |
None knows my Grief, but by their own. | |
I do believe in Heart and Mind, | 25 |
There is no greater Pain | |
Can fall upon us Woman-kind, | |
And breedeth all our Pain, | |
To lie alone, all by my self, | |
It breeds Disease, instead of Health; | 30 |
And shortly it will end my Days, | |
For so I know the Doctor says. | |
My Father’s Care I must commend, | |
And Pains that he doth take; | |
My Mother speaks not as a Friend, | 35 |
That I shan’t have a Mate. | |
Altho’ my Mother doth refuse | |
That I my youthful time should use, | |
I mean not long to stay un-wed, | |
Nor yet to keep my Maiden-head. | 40 |