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Why Women Smile By Amy Cunningham

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What “Lies” Behind the Smile Why do we smile? What is the purpose of it? At a first glance, these would appear to be very simple questions. Questions that you could answer almost immediately. Some would say, “Because we can.” or “To make other people happy.” In the essay Why Women Smile, Amy Cunningham defies the status-quo on this topic by bringing up the following points: women not only smile because we are happy or excited but also out of social obligation, we smile out of fear, nervousness, or feeling uncomfortable, and lastly that there are honest to goodness true smiles. What truly “lies” behind the smile is something that is more nuanced than people expect. Something so simple as a smile is way more complex than what actually meets the eye. In America’s culture we view smiling as a positive or friendly feeling, but in many other cultures it is actually the opposite. We view smiling as a form of respect and use it as a tool to help us either build or to repair relationships. One example of a “non-smiling” culture is Japan. In Japanese culture, they place extreme value on humility and so they tend to suppress their emotions. This is one of there ways that they use to help build relationships with people. Another “non-smiling” country is Russia. In Russia, smiling is reserved for close friends and so smiling at strangers is viewed as being insincere. (No wonder why we had so many communication issues in the cold war.) Therefore, the question at hand is why is smiling

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