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Timmy Hill: An Experience That Changed My Life

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When I was given the assignment to write an essay on an experience that changed my life, one thing instantly came to mind; In June of last year I lost my nephew, Timmy Hill. Experiencing this loss has greatly changed my life in many ways. Of course, a loss like this comes with many negative changes, but in some ways it has given me a new drive. I have learned to experience new things, I have been inspired to live a more active life, and I have a new will to accomplish things he would have been proud to see me accomplish.
On Friday June 13th 2014, I was woken up by my mother at 5am, saying my sister had something to tell us. She started by saying 'Timmy's gone'. My half asleep brain was still going 'gone where?' as she explained he had been …show more content…

For example, the first few nights after he passed I had to sleep with a light on in my room. Something about complete darkness made the mixed feelings of grief, confusion, and helplessness seem almost suffocating. After a few months the nightmares started, usually about his or someone else's sudden death. The holidays were especially difficult to get through, as we all thought of how much he would enjoy the celebrations, and how the youngest member of our family is now missing. Furthermore, given the circumstances I would be lying if I said I didn't develop a slight apprehension towards State …show more content…

He had many friends, he was adventurous, and he enjoyed helping people. Since his death many people have come to the family with stories of how he helped them without being asked, or without wanting anything in return. Inspired by the many stories, we formed a group called Timmy's Angels. Last Christmas I helped prepare meals and hand them out to the needy, such as the homeless or the elderly who were alone for the holidays. Talking to people, hearing their stories, and being able to help them in some way was a very rewarding experience. Were it not for this loss, I probably would not have gotten involved in a charity project such as this.
To feel closer to him, his family and friends started to gather together to do activities he enjoyed. As part of this I got to experience many things I would likely have never done before, such as going 'mudding'. Which, from what I gathered, is basically running through the mud in various types of vehicles pretending you are in the car chase of a movie. I was also convinced to fire a shotgun for the first time. I cannot help but feel if he were there he would have been slightly disappointed I was not knocked over from the kick, as that would have been his type of

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