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My Journey To Independence

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Independence could loosely be defined as the state of not relying on others. It is becoming more and more prevalent in modern societies. As a teenager reaches adulthood (in most countries, at the age of 18), he or she faces more responsibilities and more decisions to make on their own. Ideally, the one approaching adulthood comes to possess, through trial and error, the ability to take care of one’s self. In my case, this progress of gaining independence started a bit earlier than usual in relation to the usual customs of my culture. My dad’s philosophy on self-reliance and “manhood” transformed me into an independent teenager which in turn led me to find a more rewarding path studying abroad in the US. Specifically, the incident that began my journey towards independence in my life occurred when I was nine year-old and living in Seoul, …show more content…

Secondly, none of my friends or classmates were able to take public transportation by themselves, either. Indeed, Korean parents were and are well known for being protective. Most of them do not allow their kids to be alone at any place or at any moment. On the other hand, my dad had the wisdom, foresight, and trust to offer his nine-year old son a new experience that would set him apart from his classmates. To children living in New York, this might seem commonplace. But I was a nine year-old in Seoul. That made me two years older than a kindergartner. Taking the subway was like signing up for military service. It made me an adult, and ironically, a man. On the first day to the academy, my nerves were shot to pieces due to concerns about the subway. To get onto the subway, I had to buy a ticket first. I inserted the money that my mom had prepared into the machine. The machine sucked the money with a bizarre sound. At that moment, even this weird sound made me nervous. After my struggle with the ticketing machine, I followed the route drawn on the

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