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Leadership Is Not An Essential Component Of Leadership

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Leadership is not an easy topic to define. Everyone has their own ideas of what a leader should be and do. Some people define leadership as a demanding and cruel position, believing that tyranny is the only way for people to obey and follow them. These tyrants use fear as a vital role in their reign. Others believe that it is a position where there is all talking and little listening, preferring to hear themselves talk than hear what others have to say and add to the conversation. They only care about their own ideas and value the ideas of others lower. Qualities such as these only define self-centeredness and cruelty. They do not define the leadership of an effective leader. Leadership is actually serving, listening, and …show more content…

I was able to use this vital tool this summer as a counselor as well. The camp program that I counseled for consisted of children that recently finished third and fourth grade. They stay at camp from Sunday afternoon until Friday night. Throughout this time, many girls that are in my cabin become homesick. My second week of counseling provided me with a deeper understanding of listening as a key component of listening. We were about to go on a night hike in the woods. It was not a real night hike because the sun shone brightly down on the earth; however, my girls were excited. They were all huddled in a group, excitedly hopping around and anticipating the night’s events. One girl, however, located herself closer to the cabin all by herself. I walked over to her and asked her what was wrong. She started tearing up and said she missed her home and family. She had been gone from her home for about a month because she had visited Pennsylvania, Michigan, and her grandparents. As I listened to her explain all of this, I heard her calm down when she talked about Michigan and going to Annual Conference for the Church of the Brethren; therefore, I asked her questions about attending Annual Conference. It turns out that her dad spoke at Annual Conference, and she sounded proud of him. After a while, she calmed down and started going back to the group. I was excited that I was able to help her out with my listening and asking the right questions

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