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Grandmother In Flannery O Connor's A Good Man Is Hard To Find

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The grandmother in Flannery O’Connor’s ‘A Good Man is Hard to Find’ is entirely obsessed with herself. She is so sure that she is a lady and correct in all things that she lives in a constant delusional state stemming from some better time in her past. Her pride and delusions even led to the death of her family and herself by a man who claims there is no pleasure in the world and does atrocious things to anger God. The idea behind the story is that the absence of belief and obsession with self leads to terrible things, including a meaningless death and final realization of whom and what one really is. The story starts with the sentences “The grandmother didn’t want to go to Florida. She wanted to visit some of her connections in east Tennessee …show more content…

She recounts a story of her courtship as a young lady with a very important gentleman, because proof of her time in high society is all that matters to her. Soon afterwards the family stops for lunch at The Tower, a place owned by a man named Red Sammy whose signs had been cluttering the scenery for miles along the highway. Red Sammy’s signs claim the best barbeque, proclaim that he is a veteran, and his name, as pointed out by Frank Bernhard, bring to mind Uncle Sam. When they meet Red Sammy, they notice a monkey chained to a tree. A monkey, which is the “emblem of lust”, being chained in such a manner appears to mean good has triumphed in this establishment. However, the name Red Sammy also reminds one of the devil not only by the color of his name but the commercialism he is representing and the way he treats his wife. The grandmother, of course, does not see it this way. She simply ignores all things amiss because the song makes her feel young and want to dance. She even proclaims Sammy a good man after he confesses he let some men drive off without paying for gas and saying that “a good man is hard to find”. She believes this because he agrees with her sentiments of the current conditions of the country and appears to be as old fashioned as she is, making him into a kind of gentleman in her eyes. As he appears to be more interested in the spirit in the south than the Holy …show more content…

As stated early in the book, she brought the cat her son specifically did not want her to bring in the car. She then lied to the children about a secret panel in an old house when she really just wanted to see some trees and relive her glory days, like any man drunkenly slurring ‘I could have been in the NFL’ to the Sunday game. The Grandmother considers herself a lady, and yet has committed some major sins. She lied to the children and was vain. This seems to show that she is also Godless, as she thinks of herself before all else. When the family crashes, they look up and see a hearse like car approaching. This car is foreshadowing the death of the family. The misfit himself also appears to be Godless. He does, in fact, seem to spite Him. When the grandmother calls him a good man (another lapse in judgment) it shows how desperate she is. She recognizes the man and had spent the beginning of the story condemning him with her words. She knew exactly what he was going to do to her family and yet she only pled for herself. In the story she says “Jesus, you ought not to shoot a lady!”, again proving she held herself and her ladyhood over even her family. She pleads with the Misfit, claiming Jesus will save him. She says this all as if she is a kindly southern lady still, as if she has the ability to help him but with only the intent to help herself. She watches her family led off through the woods that “gaped like an

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