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Childhood Observation Essay

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Of the many theorists that have had the opportunity to make immense contributions to the human race regarding behavioral sciences, theorist Erick Erickson and Abraham Maslow are the two that I believe set the framework of understanding my adult stages of life. According to Feldman (2014), Erik Erickson’s intimacy vs. isolation stage commences from age 18 through forty. During this stage of development, individuals actively are seeking to be intimately involved with others. Adults are attempting to explore and develop relationships that have the potential to be life-long. When a person is successful at this stage of development, he or she has developed happy relationships, and a sense of security and commitment essentially has acquired love …show more content…

The neighborhoods we were raised in was notorious for gang violence and illegal drug sells. In fact, my brother and I were constantly being challenged by the individuals in our neighborhood to either engage in physical altercations or be labeled a coward. My mother was a hard worker, as she maintained three forms of employment; however, that would still not be enough for us to survive. I can remember standing in the welfare line with my mother as we were a family in need of government assistance such as food and insurance. I can remember going to stores for my mother and ripping out the food stamps money from the brown paper booklet to pay for groceries. It was then that I realized when I had the opportunity to raise my own family, I knew what I did not want my children to go through. As a result, I obtained employment in the industrials fields and placed my college aspirations on hold, just …show more content…

With that being said, my wife and I came to the agreement that I must obtain different employment, and so I did. As I worked full-time in the industrial field, my wife went to school to earn her undergraduate's degree. Now our single income home became a dual income home, and my wife and I obtained employment for the County of Kern. There are many benefits to be a County of Kern employee, such as having paid holidays, compensation, sick leave, and vacation pay. This is something that my family and I can get accustomed to because now my wife and I have consistent work and the ability to take time off from work to attend our children’s school functions. Obtaining employment with County of Kern was a significant stress reliever for my wife and me because, for the majority of our marriage, we struggled financially. After careful planning and consideration, our lives would take another turn for the better, as now I have decided to complete my undergraduate’s degree and place full-time work on

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