Al-Anon Paper
Brief History of Organization Before Al-Anon was placed into practice, Bill W. and Dr. Bob began meeting to build a foundation for individuals who were trying to recover from their alcohol addiction. Family groups were officially put into place in 1935 and that is when family members of alcoholics decided to accompany their loved ones to the Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) meetings. As these family members participated in the AA meetings they found it helpful to be able to discuss their unique positions they were in and enjoyed living by the AA’s Twelve Steps program. They believed that the twelve steps offered them a better chance to repair the hurt caused to the families of AA members as well as help them cope with life while their
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Together, they attained the list from the AA foundation of 87 nonalcoholic individuals/family groups who had requested a registration with the original AA program. Due to AA being unable to contact the requested individuals Lois and Anne decided to write to these individuals/groups. In May of 1951, they created a questionnaire which also stated their purpose which was to unify the family using AAs twelve step program. Due to this questionnaire, the name Al-Anon Family Groups was chosen. Throughout the 1960s Al-Anon continued to grow and spread but it was not until 1978 where the International Coordination Committee was established to form Al-Anon groups into other countries (“Al-Anon: Then and now a brief history,” …show more content…
I saw the same variety of cultures and ages but the size of the groups was vastly smaller. The AA and NA meetings were rather larger in size while the Al-Anon meetings were typically about 8 to 10 people. I felt more uncomfortable in the Al-Anon meetings than the others due to the small size; I was not able to hide in the Al-Anon meetings. In the literature it says that children are welcome but I never saw anyone under the 18 in the Al-Anon meetings. I found it interesting that many of these family members had children above the age of 12 but didn’t allow their children to come with them to those
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Group therapy has evolved so much that the participant are learning how to help themselves and others. Self-help groups are one of the most popular forms of group therapy. One of the most known self-help groups is Alcoholics Anonymous also known as A.A. Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) is an international organization produced to assist alcoholics to recover and live alcohol free lives. It was founded by Bill Wilson and Robert Holbrook Smith in 1935. It is a program, complete with twelve steps and twelve traditions, that was put together to help addicts
The support group I attended was on October 19th, 2012 at 12pm at Wesley Church located on Barstow Avenue. It was in the Winterburg Education Building in room 3. A gentleman by the name of Andy was leading the group. He first said a prayer and then asked if there were any new members. There were none so he asked if there were visitors. I introduced myself and said I was a Fresno State nursing student. He then said today they were going to talk about Step 12, which was about service. Service was about introducing AA to people that could benefit from the program. Before you were expected to complete step 12, they wanted you to complete steps 1-11 first.
Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and Al-Anon groups have helped a lot of people become sober, and to deal with an alcoholic family member. It takes a lot for a person to first admit to having a drinking problem, and then share their experiences with a room full of people. If they want help, that is what they have to do. Research on two AA meetings provided a lot of knowledge and understanding.
I have never experienced what it would be like to be a part of an AA meeting. The only time I have had seen or heard someone mention meetings for alcoholics has been TV shows and movies, which would portray these meeting as a circle of strangers just deliberating stories of their life and how this disease has changed them forever. Therefore, I had no idea what to expect. I felt intimidated and had a sense of nervousness, so I decided I would not go alone and brought a friend. My expectation upon entering this meeting was to see beat up people with bad hygiene and a homeless appearance. As a matter of fact, the expectations I had upon walking towards this place was that I was going to get hit on and even get kidnapped. As crazy as it
Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) is the largest and most commonly known self-help group in the world. Since the creation of AA in 1935, there have been many programs modeled after it, which are also based on the 12-Step Program. Some of these include Narcotics Anonymous (NA) and Chemically Dependent Anonymous, as well as programs for specific drugs, such as Cocaine Anonymous (CA) and Crystal Meth Anonymous (NIDA, 2012). Attendance and participation for self-help groups are open for anyone to attend and free of cost for all members, with meetings typically held in locations such as churches and public buildings. “Metropolitan areas usually have specialized groups, based on such member characteristics as gender, length of time in recovery,
Each person said their first name. The chair of the meeting read the guidelines for the meeting. Individuals were welcome to share their experience. The open topic for the first half of the meetings focused on how Al-Anon has helped the individual in their daily lives. One person shared that they have implemented the Serenity Prayer and teaching from Al-Anon into their work lives as well as to relationships with family and friends. Another person shared that they have learned how to set boundaries and adhere to them. Learning how to make sure that they held themselves responsible if they allowed someone to cross the boundary. As with Narcotics Anonymous, Al-Anon also has a Twelve Step structure and several people commented on the steps that they are currently on and what the steps have meant to them. No problems or issues were discussed. Individuals talked about how they are connecting with themselves, not trying to change or control the person/persons in their lives who have the addiction. The comments made were ones of encouragement. At several times in the meeting a sponsor sign in sheet was passed around. At a half way point in the meeting, new comers were invited to go to another room to meet with a member to get additional information and ask any questions that they may have. In the second half of the meeting, the group was encouraged to share whatever they wanted to talk about. One person spoke about the guilt they felt when they decided to end their marriage from the spouse with the addiction. How their child at the time blamed them for the break-up and how it took almost three years for that adult child to even communicate with them. Others talked about being lost, and having feelings of misery and hopelessness. They could not “fix” the person with the
I went to a traditional 12 step AA meeting. It was a long timers group, which had individuals who have been attending AA for a while now and those who have been sober for at least 10 years or more. It was at Mt. Calvary Lutheran Church, located in Johnstown, Pa. The meeting was from 7:30pm to 8:30pm. They started off the meeting by reading the preamble. The preamble, which was found and quoted from the District 41- Alcoholics Anonymous, Johnstown, Pa website (2015), “Alcoholics Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from alcoholism. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking. There are no dues or fees for AA membership; we are self-supporting through our own contributions. AA is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization or institution; does not wish to engage in any controversy; neither endorses nor opposes any causes. Our primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics to achieve sobriety.” After the preamble they had one of the attendees of the group read the 12 steps.
One Thursday night, I ventured out to into the warm early autumn night. I headed to a local hospital, where I knew there was Al-Anon meetings held once every two weeks. I believed that this would be a prime opportunity to witness a self-help group that was geared towards helping the relatives and loved ones of addicts deal with the terror of living with, or without, the addict in question. Addiction is a disease which impacts so many more lives than just the addict themselves. Al-Anon meetings are meant to help support the efforts of those loved ones as they face very different issues associated with addiction.
One of the most exciting experiences that I have had in The United States was my attendance to the Al-Anon meeting. Although I had already gone to these meetings several times when I lived in Iran, I have found these meetings very beneficial to the family member of the addicted people.
The 12 step program Alcoholics Anonymous (AA )was born in 1934. Prohibition had been repealed and a man named Bill Watson drunkenly found his way to Manhattan Hospital. Bill was known to knock back quite a bit of whiskey every day and couldn 't seem to be able to quit. While he was at Manhattan Hospital he was given a new and considered experimental treatment for addiction of belladonna, which is a hallucinogen. Bill in his induced state yelled to God to help free him of alcohol. He reported seeing a bright light and feeling such serenity that Bill quit drinking alcohol. He went on to co-found Alcoholics Anonymous and based the principles off the evangelical Oxford Group which believed people were sinners, but with the help of God and confessing, a person could get on the proper path. AA was an answer to a huge void the medical world felt at the time in regard to people who drank heavily. Once alcoholism was named a disease in 1956 by the American Medical Association (AMA) AA grew and more hospitals sprung up wards for alcoholics for patients to detox with no other treatment offered. What someone in a ward for alcholhoics did receive was members showing up to support their fellow drinker and offering support and invitations to meetings. Thus began the road to calling alcoholism a disease and the first 12 step program AA. (14)
I received permission through this group through a longtime friend and former coworker that has been a member for five years. I met with my friend March 25th ahead of time to explain what my assignment entailed and whether it would be all right to attend the meeting. She made sure I knew not to mention names in my report, not to bring in note taking materials and that when they asked me to share I could just say “thank you for this opportunity, I am happy to be here, I am just listening today.” Through the anonymity of the twelve step traditions one is not obligated to openly identify myself during the meeting, in addition there is not a hierarchy of the group, and new members are welcome and able to observe at any time. The meeting lasted approximately an hour and a half; time ranges depending on how member attendance.
1- The sponsor opened the meeting by introducing himself and the meeting purpose. Then, he suggested us with a moment of silence followed by the serenity of prayer.Later, the sponsor read the preamble and asked one of the AA members from his group to read the " how it works" from the alcoholic anonymous big book, followed by the 12 traditions as well. Moreover, the AA SUPPORT GROUP GUIDELINES were reviewed because they were new members present in the meeting. Here was when the sponsor explained the privacy and confidentiality aspects of the meeting. So, the main
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I grew up in a small city in South Eastern Wisconsin called Lake Geneva. My neighborhood was predominantly White and Hispanic and most people were Christians. I knew one person who practiced Islam and had never met a Jewish person. Like many of my classmates, I was baptized Catholic, however, my family was not very religious and my mother and I were the only ones who would regularly attend church. My mother and I shared the philosophy that religion was not a specific thing and that people should be led by their morals above everything. She did not want me to be confirmed until I had truly felt I belonged to a certain church or religion. I saw this First-Year Interest Group as a great way to further expand my religious background so that I could better determine my own religious beliefs. My Grandfather also encouraged me to take this FIG after discovering his father was Middle Eastern rather than Cuban. He was excited for me to learn about the region so I could share what I would learn. It was exciting for